Find and live your Flow

//Find and live your Flow

Find and live your Flow

A challenge for you in 2018

For me it is going to be a personally powerful year. It’s the year I turn 50. Fifty is such a turning-point, a significant stepping stone that speaks to a life lived – and a life still to live.

Being the personality I am, I plan to celebrate in as big a way as possible. And what better way than to celebrate each and every decade – literally. Yes, I’ve come up with one “thing” for each of my five decades. I’m calling them my “five fabulous things”.

Here they are:

  • going on a cooking course in Greece with four of my school girlfriends (of forty years!);
  • listening to Andrea Bocelli on his farm in Tuscany;
  • working towards my dream of meeting Brené Brown (author of Daring Greatly, my favourite book of all time) come true;
  • throwing a dinner party in my home to honour some of the special people in my life, and
  • continuing to spread the message of the importance of exploring our relationships with money through the work and writing that I do. 

The point of sharing these details with you is that what is encompassed in my dreams for 2018 are three of the things I’m most passionate about: travelling, cooking and learning. These three things represent me at my most inspired. Because finding your flow is about what makes you feel alive. I love how Ariel Gore, author of Bluebird: Women and the New Psychology of Happiness, puts it: “In a typical day that teeters between anxiety and boredom, flow experiences are those flashes of intense living – bright against the dull. These optimal experiences can happen when we’re engaged in work paid and unpaid, in sports, in music, in art.”

Be fearless to follow your flow

I was having dinner with some special clients recently. Five years ago we had had a meeting that changed their lives. They had come to see us because their life was at a crossroads – a difficult one. My client, a busy businessman (unhappy in the field he was in), was struggling with cancer. In our meeting, we were running scenarios of what working one more year would look like for him, the implications of restructuring his business – and of then downsizing it. At some point, I put this to him: “So, are you telling me that you’re going to carry on doing more of what you don’t like for longer?”

Hearing it like that changed the course of his life. It was his “aha” moment: right there, he and his wife started envisioning the life they actually wanted. They started to feel the flow into what saw him leave his job, move with his wife to a more peaceful place, change their lifestyle to a healthier one and be more in touch with themselves spiritually. Today, they are happy and healthy. And they’re grateful for all they have.

That is being in the flow.

If you are looking for your flow, have a look at my five ways to find your flow tips in the January issue of the Inflight newsletter … and let me know how it goes.

Warm regards

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About the Author:

Kim Potgieter
Kim is a qualified financial planner with a special interest in Financial Life Planning. She has found her niche specialising in retirement. She has always been fascinated by the relationship between psychology and money and became a Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) so that she could combine her two passions: studying the relationship people have with money and advising people on how to get the most out of retirement. Read more...

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